
‘With Boy Meets Boy, I basically set out to write the book that I dreamed of getting as an editor - a book about gay teens that doesn't conform to the old norms about gay teens in literature (i.e. it has to be about a gay uncle, or a teen who gets beaten up for being gay, or about outcasts who come out and find they're still outcasts, albeit outcasts with their outcastedness in common.)’
Achieved in style.
‘I’m often asked if the book is a work of fantasy or a work of reality, and the answer is right down the middle - it's about where we're going, and where we should be.’
Awesome answer to a tough question.
Paul, Tony and Joni go to see a friend dj at their local chain bookstore. In the bookstore Paul meets Noah, who has just transferred to his school. They start dating and everything is lovely for a time, but then Noah starts to pull away and Paul makes a mistake with an ex called Kyle, who needs a supportive friend. Joni starts dating someone Paul dislikes. Tony ends up grounded by his parents, because they want to set him on the path to straight enlightenment. Paul must find a way to bring those he cares about to a happy place, in time for the big Dowager dance.
In Paul’s town being gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transsexual is not a problem. The gay scene and the straight scene joined together and his school year all hang out together. Sexual identity is fluid and boundaries have been smudged, an idea which Levithan amusingly explores by pairing less heard of combinations to create new high school activities, for example there’s a team that bowls while answering quiz questions and the cheerleading team does motorcycle tricks. Levithan uses unusual pairings in a similar way, to challenge ideas about the link between personality and sexuality. One of his characters, a transvestite called Infinite Darleen, is both Homecoming Queen and a quarterback, pushing against the idea that you can be sporty, or interested in fashion, but not both. These surprising combinations are a big part of the small book’s charm.
In the background there are signs that some people would feel more comfortable if everyone was labelled one way or the other. Paul’s ex-boyfriend Kyle can’t handle discovering that he’s bisexual, rather than gay or straight. He wants to be ‘be one or the other’. Other characters express negative feelings about Infinite Darleen, whose behaviour transcends any stereotypical gender categorisation. It’s perhaps unsurprising to find these words coming from a bicurious macho team mate, Chuck, who feels Darleen should ‘just enter the beauty contests instead of heading onto the gridiron…’ but Levithan takes an extremely honest tack by showing that Darleen’s fellow drag queens also find the way she lives her life unacceptable as they ‘rarely sit with her at lunch.; they say she doesn’t take good enough care of her nails, and that she looks a little too buff in a tank top.’ It’s interesting to see that it’s not just straight characters like Tony’s parents, who embrace labels and boxes, it’s also conflicted characters like Chuck and Kyle, as well as out and proud characters, that help to create harmful definitions of right and wrong behaviour.
I feel like I’m making this book’s subject sound like a typical fraught battle between gay teenagers and the rest of the world. It’s not, a minority of the characters voice their dislike of how things work in Paul’s town, I just thought it was interesting to see how Levithan incorporates the problems of reality into his utopian society. Rather than allowing his book to be an entirely positive book, which might easily be dismissed as fantasy, or a morality tale he allows for problems in this generally happy society and creates voices for gay teenagers whose lives have not been as easy as Paul’s.
Overall this is a very happy book, full of charming details guaranteed to make readers laugh a little and smile. The ending is sweet, almost verging on whimsical without being overly saccharine. It cheered me up and it showed me all these new possibilities for authors writing books about gay characters. Typical coming out stories are still important, but Levithan reminds us that after coming out gay teens live and that they’re not all hiding in fear, or reviled by their classmates, even if some of them are. ‘Boy Meets Boy’ is an alternative voice, sweeter and softer than the hard tales of kids rejected and beaten for their sexuality, but no less important.
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